Are you a mountain person or a beach person? Maybe you’re neither–or both.

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This is the view from our cabin near Pigeon Forge this past weekend. We discovered cabin lodging about 25 years ago, and except for a few stays in a condo in our annual trip to the Smokies, we have stayed in nothing else.

Once upon a time, the Smokies were my “happy” place. The views, the colors in the fall, the things to do–it was a perfect fit for me. I enjoy the beach as long as I’m active. I’m not the type to enjoy sitting on the beach all day and reading a book. My idea of fun at the beach is walking on the beach at least twice a day, swimming, spending a little time on the sand (maybe an hour or two), going to locally owned shops, doing things like a dolphin cruise, and things like that.

When I was a teen, I enjoyed horseback riding at the Smokies. I enjoyed the ski lift, Ober Gatlinburg where I ice skated, going to Cade’s Cove, and exploring the mountains.

The years, however, have brought changes, some of which are good and some of which are not.

Pigeon Forge, once a sleepy little spot on the way to Gatlinburg from Exit 407, is now a commercialized chaos that brings bumper to bumper traffic, crowded restaurants, crowded stores and entertainment venues, and…well, crowds. To be honest, although I always loved the mountains when I growing hop and in early adulthood, I’ve never liked the town of Gatlinburg. Too commercialized even back in the day, with the fudge shops and places selling souvenirs and that sort of thing. These days, it’s more crowded than ever.

I get it. Places like that rely on the tourism industry. It’s the lifeblood of the community. They need those dollars, and I actually feel like I’m doing something good for someone when I spend money there.

The resort in which we stayed, Sherwood Forest, was secluded, not too far from Pigeon Forge, and very clean and comfortable. We grilled on the gas grill one night, enjoyed YouTube TV programming availability in the evenings, and walked the resort for exercise one morning instead of fighting the traffic to go into the park and find a hiking trail. The roads were sometimes steep but nothing too bad, although walking UP the hills was a cardio workout like no other!

Luckily, many visitors left Sunday morning, so the traffic became much better, the miniature golf courses and the Titanic exhibit not crowded at all, and no problem with dining out.

If you’ve never been, I do recommend going at least once. Go to Dollywood for the kids or the water park. Play miniature golf and do all those other things kids enjoy. Adults can take in shows, explore the artisan shops like Alewife Pottery (locals, did you know they’re from Martin?), and explore Cade’s Cove and other sites where you are likely to see a bear in the wild. Enjoy the beauty of the mountains. Relax in a cozy cabin..

As for me, I’m visiting the Smokies in my mind regularly these days as I write my third book in the Mandi series entitled Secrets of the Smokies. The Mandi series is for girls ages eight to 12, and I’m rewriting and revising (meaning improving, hopefully) the first two books The Ghosts of Graceland and Music City Mayhem. Notice the alliteration in all the titles? Cheesy, I know, but it just happened that way.

As for this trip, though, we made the mistake of scheduling it without checking to see if there was any sort of special event taking place. Or maybe it wasn’t on the schedule when we planned our trip. But Friday and Saturday were packed with people attending a Street Rod (Street Hot Rod?) convention. Those cars and people were everywhere.

So, when you plan your trip, research. Maybe go during the week instead of on a weekend. Even then, be prepared for the traffic. And don’t stay in the midst of all that chaos. Don’t stay in a hotel or a condo, unless they’re far away from the madness. Go to VRBO or find cabin rental companies. Find the cabin that is right for you and your companions. You’ll find luxury cabins, some in resorts with pools and even cabins with their own indoor pool, lodges, one-bedroom and two-bedroom cabins, and more. You’ll find some very high up with amazing views and others at lower elevations and surrounded by nature’s beauty.

Not everyone likes spending time in the mountains. I don’t love it as I once did, but my husband does. We’ve learned it’s more enjoyable to go with friends or family because spending time with them is part of the experience. It all comes down to your personal preferences and your situation in life. So for all you beach-lovers, continue to do what you like to do.

As for me, as long as I’m with friends or family, I can enjoy being anywhere…well, as long as you promise not to want to just sit around all the time and not do things.

An active life is a happy life. At least, it is for me.

Great places I’ve seen, and places I want to go

I took this photo in Nassau, Bahamas, when we went there on a cruise in 2023.

We live in an amazing world, and one lifetime is not enough to see all I’d like to see. After all, life has been full of responsibilities and busyness, not to mention financial considerations, so to think that anyone outside of the very rich could go everywhere they’d like to go is unlikely. Notice I didn’t say impossible.

Some people don’t like to travel to new places. I know many who prefer to go to the beach every year on vacation, and that’s fine.

But that’s not me. Maybe it’s not you. Maybe you’re still dreaming of all the places you want to go. Maybe you “visit” them by watching YouTube videos. Maybe you wonder if going there would be worth it.

Allow me to make a few recommendations:

  1. The Grand Canyon, specifically the south rim. No video or photograph can do it justice. It is a feeling as much as a view.
  2. Washington, D.C. Don’t think I’m crazy, but seeing our nation’s capital (and Capitol) is a must. The museums, the historical buildings, Arlington Cemetery, the house where President Lincoln died…be sure to go to Alexandria, Virginia, and ride the trolley down King (or is it King’s) Road (Street?) and hang out by the Potomac
  3. The Great Smoky Mountains. Whether you are into nature or into commercialization, you can pick and choose. Whether you choose to hike, go tubing or rafting, ride zip lines and mountain coasters, or spend hours shopping in one specialty/touristy shop after another, it’s all there. And rent a cabin. They have amenities to keep you busy or comfort to allow you to be lazy.
  4. The Outer Banks, North Carolina. Stay in Southern Shores or Duck. Go to Manteo to explore a replica of The Lost Colony, go to Kitty Hawk (well, Kill Devil Hills) to see the site of the Wright brothers’ first flight, and enjoy time on a beach NOT lined with condos but rather private residences and not as crowded as Florida beaches. By the way, I’m not a fan of Florida. It’s okay, but just not a fan.
  5. Sedona ad Old Town Scottsdale, Arizona. Enjoy Sedona’s shops, restaurants, red rock beauty, and surreal atmosphere. Enjoy an upscale old west environment in Scottsdale. Shop at Gilbert Ortega Galleries in Scottsdale, but be prepared to pay a high amount for anything you buy. Still, it’s fun to look at what they have to offer.
  6. San Antonio, Texas. Six Flags Fiesta Texas for the kiddos, and the whole family will enjoy Sea World. Be sure to eat at Mi Tierra and shop in El Mercado, take a boat ride on the San Antonio River by the mall across from the Alamo. And, oh, of course, visit The Alamo. It’s not very big.

I could continue with more, but I’ll move along to where I would like to go.

  1. All over Europe, specifically France, Spain, Switzerland, and Austria. Yes, blame “The Sound of Music” for Austria. Blame “Heidi” for Switzerland. Blame my majoring in Spanish for Spain. And blame my ancestry and minoring in French for France.
  2. New York City. Not a long stay. Just enough to see all the must-see stuff.
  3. Boston, Cape Cod, Martha’s Vineyard.
  4. Wyoming and Montana.
  5. I once had a desire to go to Israel, but the area is too unsafe, so I am content watching “Drive-Thru History: The Gospels” and “Drive-Thru History: Acts to Revelation” on Prime Video. It’s free, by the way.

Now you know my top picks. What about yours?